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David Tian, Ph.D., is Private Advisor to Founders, High Achievers, and Senior Leaders, Brown University Certified Leadership & Performance Coach, Certified IFS Therapy Practitioner (L3), ICF Certified Coach, devoted husband, proud father, and former university professor — helping build lives of connection, meaning, and fulfillment through Asian philosophy, psychological insight, and relational depth.
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The Parts of You That Cannot Love | (#086) Beyond Success: Psychology & Philosophy for Achievers, with David Tian
Every high achiever I’ve worked with says he wants deeper connection. Almost none of them understand what it actually costs.
In this episode, I show you the one move most achievers unconsciously resist making. The move that changes how every close relationship in their life works — their oldest friends, the family they came from, the family they have not yet built, and the one they have with themselves.
The Achiever’s Paradox: Wu Wei, Flow, and What Mencius and Wang Yangming Knew About Effortless Action
What if the strength that built the company is the obstacle to the next phase of life? The ancient Chinese philosophers had a name for the state most worth wanting — wu wei, effortless action — and noticed it can’t be reached by harder effort. Mencius saw the problem twenty-three centuries ago. Wang Yangming, sixteen hundred years later, identified the reason most of us are stuck even after we see it.
Life After Success: Why the Exit Doesn’t Feel Like How You Thought It Would
A philosophical look at the disorientation that follows an IPO, an exit, or financial freedom — and what it’s actually asking of you.
The sadness, flatness, or unease that follows a successful exit is common, predictable, and almost always misdiagnosed. It is not depression. It is not burnout. It is not ingratitude, and no amount of journaling about gratitude will resolve it. It is what happens when a question that organized your life for a decade finally gets answered. This essay names what it actually is, explains why three common responses make it worse, and points at the harder question hiding inside the discomfort.