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David Tian, Ph.D., is a Leadership Coach, Certified IFS Therapy Practitioner, former university professor, and a uniquely qualified international specialist in human behavior and emotional intelligence, and a global educator, researcher, speaker, and author.
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The Books That Helped Me Stop Proving Myself and Start Living for Real | (#037) Beyond Success: Psychology & Philosophy for Achievers, with David Tian, Ph.D.
The Achiever’s Curse is a deadly one. It starts subtle at first. But left unchecked long enough, it seeps into every aspect of your life, stealing joy and fulfillment every step of the way. Too many achievers don’t realize this insidious curse until they feel the intense pangs of regret on their deathbed.
Far too late, in other words.
I want to help you avoid this terrible fate…
The Hidden Reason Smart People Make Terrible Life Decisions | (#036) Beyond Success: Psychology & Philosophy for Achievers, with David Tian, Ph.D.
Perhaps the most important skill an intelligent person can learn is the Dao of Decision Making.
Making tough, high-stakes decisions doesn’t come naturally to high achievers because they’ve been fooled into valuing their intelligence more than their emotions. But every decision has its roots in emotions… and relying solely on logic and data for these decisions is a quick way to make a decision that wrecks your marriage, your internal harmony, and even your future fulfillment.
In other words, there is a better way to access the deep kind of wisdom that makes the answer to high-stake decisions obvious.
The Silent Way Emotional Avoidance Destroys Success | (#035) Beyond Success: Psychology & Philosophy for Achievers, with David Tian, Ph.D.
Most high achievers learned at a young age that emotions were distractions. This early lesson inspired much of their success… but it came at a terrible cost:
It develops emotional blindspots that quietly, patiently, and relentlessly sabotage you.
Here’s the thing about emotional blindspots:
No matter how much you try to stuff them down and pretend they don’t exist, they don’t simply disappear. Instead, they move underground. They become sneakier. More insidious. And more sabotaging.
Worst part?
There’s only one way to address your emotional blindspots in a way that builds emotional strength and mastery. And it’s not hustling harder, doing more mental gymnastics with your cognitive behavioral therapist, or becoming a master at stress management.
The real solution goes far deeper than these knee-jerk reactions most high achievers have.