What Others Are Saying About David Tian’s
I now have way more women interested in me than I can handle, and it’s all from just being myself. Listen to David, get Platinum, get therapy, and effortless attraction will come. I still have problems I’m working on, but attraction isn’t one. David’s material is why… I can’t say enough about how impactful this has been to my life in a great way!
I’ve been going through Lifestyle Mastery, Rock Solid Relationships, Freedom U, and other courses as part of the Platinum Partnership. And I really notice people around me interacting differently with me, in a good way. I actually find myself enjoying the feeling of deeper connections as I share my vulnerabilities with the right people. This is a feeling I rarely felt for most of my life before taking your courses. I feel less sexual shame now, and am enjoying my relationships in my various social activities and at work too. There’s this growing sense of freedom and self love in me that feels really liberating!
Dear support team,
David asked for feedback on the last Freedom U live, and I’ll give you feedback anytime, but I’m not sure it will be helpful.
I started studies on attraction, masculine psychology, and “dating” in 2014. That’s when I found the Desire Code. To this very day, I owe my growth and development in many ways to David’s courses and general influence. His evolution has also been my evolution.
I suppose it helps he and I are from the same generation. In fact, I know it does. I am solidly a gen x. Perhaps it’s really true you can only judge a generation by others in that same generation. I will tell you, David has been the biggest influence in my life for growth (above and below) out of everything I have studied since 2014. My Study has been extensive.
I can’t explain lower engagement levels in Freedom U or anywhere else for that matter. Sometimes I can’t believe the “views” or engagement levels other people on social media have. David blows these guys away in terms of depth and content. He will no doubt exceed them soon with metrics too.
I can only tell you my personal story. I’m buried and tired. I dream of clean linens, pale moonlight, soft sound, and cool pillows. I dream of this hours before I can actually sleep. Meditation is impossible as I will be asleep on the 3rd “Ohm.” I am in Drive waiting for the uninterrupted 2 hours I need for the first meditation.
Life has been changed dramatically for many of us which can be very preoccupying. I’m solid these days thanks in no small part to Aura. Maybe that’s it for many other people too. All I know is David has an ardent supporter and loyal friend in me. Whatever I have invested, it has come back to me an hundred fold.
As I said, this may not help. From my seat I am grateful and as engaged as I can be. I spread the word and send links whenever the opportunity presents itself. I hope for a bigger break for David as always, and perhaps that will be just around the corner. Either way I’ll be here as long as I’m breathing. A big thank you to all of you and especially to David for pressing forward with his work!
Just wanted to let you know that you’ve done an amazing job with the Rock Solid Relationships course. My growth over the past 2 years ever since I’ve purchased Rock Solid Relationships has drastically increased, especially with the way in which I’ve approached long term relationships.
I must admit that module 7.5 detailing our True Self was the most powerful module for me. Firstly because it helped gain a better understanding of myself and secondly because it I could then figure out what i wanted in a woman. I have filtered out what my core needs along with identifying my protective and managerial parts who were trying to control my exiles. Understanding that the need for significance- like many men, was my core need at the time, i was able to slowly find ways to meet it. Having had a shift through this paradigm, i have slowly been able to understand the underlying needs that have held me back for most of my life and bring them to surface, only to listen to them and get what they want. My only regret till now is why I didn’t come across a coach like you ever since i started “learning” game a decade ago. But i guess that we all must go through a destructive/awakening phase in our lives to ever want to commit to understanding our Higher Selves.
Anyways i would like to end this post by thanking you for the knowledge you have bestowed upon us Millennials, enabling us to make informed/mature decisions throughout our lives.
Well guys, I FINALLY did it; I joined the Platinum Partnership. Over the last year and a half I’ve been through Invincible, got myself a therapist, and endured a 3month relationship with a narcissist (I credit David for making me even able to realize that).If you would have told me 2yrs ago I would spend a couple thousand on dating/life coaching, I would have laughed all my way to the strip club where I was about to drop a couple hundred dollars, or I would have laughed and went out and bought a new watch, clothes, car parts, or some other kind of toy that I thought would make me happy and/or get women. Looking back at it, none of the stupid shit I bought ever made me happy or got me women, but it was always an excuse why I “couldn’t afford” to get self-help.My journey started out looking for dating help, but it turned into life guidance, which led to therapy, which I never expected. Yes, I still ended up in a relationship with a narcissistic emotional vampire for 3 months, but I also gained the skills to recognize it and leave the relationship.So I took the plunge, and am looking forward to going through ALL the programs. It might take me 2 years to finish everything, but I believe it was the best investment I could have made in myself.”
The course, Limitless, is structured and organized well such that it keeps you on task and pushes you for the duration of the program. I found myself having more than enough time to balance the course work with a full time job and other commitments. The materials are all very insightful and honestly changed the way I thought about social situations. There was a huge jump in my emotional intelligence from this course, and I did not feel as though I was memorizing material but rather changing my mindset as was described.
David Tian is one of (if not thee) best instructors out there for learning what to do and more importantly what not to do when it comes to stepping up in remaking yourself into a more confident you. By focusing on improving your integrity, values and finding your own true voice believe the steps that follow with women will be much more authentic and easier instead of the pickup community’s approach. David learned what to do after the pickup scene and he’s here to show you the next levels. Thank you, David.
I’ve been investing in David’s material for the past few years but when I got Freedom U, I didn’t know what I was getting myself into. Yes, I thought that it was expensive at first but rest assured that my doubts disappeared as soon as they came in. Why, may you ask? I am still in the early stages of it but before beginning, I skimmed the entire program to see what the roadmap was going to be like and damn… believe me when I say you will be hard-pressed to find a more valuable and life-changing program. What this mammoth of a program offers is of gargantuan value, and you simply won’t regret it. Thank you
I took the Rock Solid Relationships course because I was confused about how to approach my long term and long distance relationship at the time, and often had problems managing it and my own emotions. The course introduced me to the concepts of 5 fundamental needs (and 2 higher needs), which was a great framework to think about why and how I feel and react to different things. The course also introduced me to the concept of false self, and how the way I react to things can be consequences of my childhood trauma. Perhaps most directly relevant, it taught me different kinds of relationship patterns (co-dependency, narcissistic, fixer) and let me see how unhappiness and conflicts from my current and past relationships stem from them. At the end of the course, I gained stronger self-awareness… and it let me realize problems I didn’t know before, and motivated me to seek out further therapy. Thanks
I bought The Rock Solid Relationships course because I’m in a relationships with an amazing woman whom I have a child with and
I want to insure that this relationship will be fulfilling and happy for all of us. In this course David teaches deep psychology about all kinds of things that are important to understand for a successful relationship. Like for example how your childhood traumas have shaped you and how it has affected you and your relationships. I learned so much about myself, about my previous relationships and what to do different in this relationship. Also David emphasizes about the importance of proper parenting so we don’t damage the next generation.
Best investment I’ve ever made was joining Platinum Partnership! I almost feel guilty for how much I got for such a little price. I feel very fortunate to have access to David’s work. He has made a large and positive impact in my whole life.
You’re bad ass Dr. Tian! I wouldn’t be here if it wasn’t for your programs I started 2 years ago. You saved me from a toxic relationship and navigated into a beautiful relationship here in another country and we are still learning each other’s language. Thanks bro!!
Hey guys, transformation ‘from the comfort of your armchair’ is absolutely a real thing. Now that I’ve gone through Dr. Tian’s big courses, I do not have to think at all about being attractive. I just am effortlessly. But it’s not just women, it’s everyone, and the only opinion that matters is mine, which is why it works. Hopefully, for those in his courses you will get past thinking about your attractiveness soon too, because you’re selling yourself way too short if that’s what you’re aiming for. Focus on your psychological and emotional integration and all those other things you might be worrying about will take care of themselves. Ride the best trained ‘elephant’ in the world and your cares won’t be as much of a burden! Good day to you my friends!
The Legendary Coaching Group has helped me to understand how my childhood affects my present and how to handle it in a better way. It has helped me to deal with the negative emotions that came from my past and see my childhood with new eyes. Also, the bonus courses are great and explain the different phases of success. A great service is the weekly live classes where you can ask David Tian questions.
Rock Solid Relationships and Masculine Mastery is probably the most fundamental course I’ve ever taken on anything anywhere. All of David’s courses really go deep but this one especially, goes deep. I learned about what was really blocking my relationships, heck, literally my whole life. This course isn’t just about relationships, it’s about how you fundamentally interact with reality.
The cool thing about the way David teaches is you can go over the content over and over and get new things out of it all the time. Every single time I review it and apply it, my life gets just that much better, because the course is based on a bunch of psychological principles that are deeply true. Rather than a bunch of tactics and techniques, although it includes some of those as well, which are enhanced by the overall context of the course. So clearly I am totally on board with David on this course, I do recommend it if you are interested in trying it out. You won’t regret it.
Hey David, I hope you are having a great day so far, for I know that I am because of you. I know you most likely get these all the time, but I need you to know my appreciation for your work is impeccable. I know that you must have suffered a lot throughout the years for I have too. It does show in your work sometimes, especially when people ask you questions, I pay a lot of attention and I know you do as well. It really is quite beautiful. I can tell that you really care about what you do and the people you help and it’s truly inspiring, thank you David. Your work has helped so many people, and it actually amazes me how you were able to come up with a way to attract guys into your world/business with the promise of getting women. I too have fallen for that hook, line and sinker (if people still say that lol) it’s funny how stupid I realized I was. You must know by now, that most guys come to you with the wrong ideas in their heads about various things. The dark triad is a great way to dispose of those ideas, and I’m really surprised when you called out the fakers including me. It was so deep, in fact, I convinced myself that I wasn’t a codependent narcissist. You calling out the guys (PUA and red pill types) put me into a position where I would have been in denial by not confronting that part of me. Thank you again David, you don’t know how much you helped me and so many others.
I will continue to review your ideas and test them in action for I too have a goal of helping men just like you do. The fact that you were able to grow your business to the point where you willingly give out free courses to guys in need actually brings tears to my eyes man. You taught me that true fulfillment comes from helping out the little guys and just spreading love anyway you can. I know now a little more about what it means to be a man thanks to you. In my daily life now, I think what would so and so do usually referring to you or Theodore Roosevelt and many others who I won’t name.
You truly are a MAN and I will continue to MAN UP with all of you guys.
In honor of you David Tian, PhD. lol I vow to become a great man so that I can inspire other men to do the same as you and many before you have.
David Tian, I am certainly grateful for having come across you and your programs. Before your programs, I suffered depression and then my marriage ended. At the beginning of this year, I couldn’t see the light at the end of the tunnel and formulated my ‘exit strategy’. I couldn’t see a future at all, couldn’t tell you what I’d be doing 12 months from now. But because of your programs, I have a new lease on life. I purchased a couple of your programs recently and, mate, it’s given me DRIVE (no pun intended) to get my shit together and get my arse into gear. So thank you, David Tian, I owe you a beer or 20. Cheers!
Just want to put this out there: David is a legend. I took his course nearly 5 years ago and although I haven’t really needed anything else since then, what he taught, will like full on Mr. Miyagi you. The seeds that he plants in your head take you down a journey that fully accommodates you for where you are in life so that you can evolve as a human being.
I often think back about the pivotal moments that changed my life growing up. A mentor here, an epiphany there, but two big lessons that David taught me through his teachings have really made me into a much more capable, open minded, and compassionate human being. David knows what he’s doing, and believe you’ll come out the other side doing everything you’ve ever wanted.
I found David’s Total Transformation Collection very rewarding, as it made me realize aspects about myself that I know I have to work on. After years of struggling with psychological problems and not being able to find the answers I have been looking for, finally, I have found content that is giving me the tools I need to propel me forward and help me to live a more fulfilling life.
Best regards, Tony
David Tian is a Guru Like NO OTHER! He understands, explains, and motivates me to go out and meet new Women. Based on changing my core beliefs and understanding, or differences in Male and Female Psychology.
Every lesson is carefully calibrated to pack 1000X value into the time spent learning the material. The focus is on making life changes that give me knowledge to go out and do the work to become better with woman and more successful in life. Thank you David Tian, for when the student is ready, the teacher appears. Forever Grateful!
Legendary is an amazing course for guys that are just beginning their therapeutic path. Legendary has gotten me to go see a therapist and work through my past traumas and reasons why I have toxic shame. The course includes a few other bonus courses that lead you through different types of energies that will help guide you through life. David is also a huge believer in meditation which you will experience throughout the course, stick with it, because meditation has changed the way I approach life. This course has changed the direction of my life and I am extremely grateful. Thanks, David!
I wanted to share a couple of “breakthroughs” I’ve experienced from starting David Tian’s Legendary Group. So, my first “breakthrough” is that I have been talking to more people. It sounds sort of insignificant when I say it like that, but it’s huge for me. In these past few weeks, I’ve reconnected with two of my ex-girlfriends, with whom I had failed relationships with. Thanks to David’s stuff, I’ve been able to let go of the past and be with them as friends… I’ve also reconnected with an old childhood friend that is also a wonderful person, but I let my narcissism and self-esteem issues ruin our friendship. It was incredible to hang out with him again, “bullshit free”… I randomly check in on people I care about. I feel much more able to connect with people since I’ve been getting better at loving myself. I’m more and more comfortable with expressing my truth, which brings me to my second breakthrough.
Breakthrough number two is that I believe that I’m starting to understand the “true self” concept… After implementing David’s suggestions, I’m beginning to I feel more like my true self more consistently throughout the week. I feel good, I feel happy, content, able to express my truth without much fear of how others will judge me. I feel free. I feel like everything is ok, and even if objectively nothing is ok, that’s ok too. That sentence sounded stupid as fuck, but it really does describe the feeling. I’ve spent so much of my life so far feeling absolutely awful, seemingly for no good reason at all, although the reasons are becoming clearer and clearer these days… I’m looking forward to hopefully having several decades of living on this earth while having increasingly more and longer “glimpses” of those good, true self, pocket-full-of-sunshine moments, instead of feeling absolutely fucking awful and overflowing with darkness all the time. I use to scare myself with how dark I could become; luckily I don’t feel that way as much anymore.
So, thank you David for your guidance. My life is becoming much more enjoyable, and your work continues to play a very big part in that. Cheers man, thank you. You’re fucking awesome
Hey, I just finished all of FreedomU!!! Huge thank you to David Tian for this course and all the support you gave. Since beginning FreedomU and at around the same time undergoing IFS therapy, I have grown so much more present and reassured about myself. Other people have taken notice of this and I’m seeing many positive changes in my dating, social and work life. I’m much more comfortable around attractive women, can enjoy myself better in social circles, and have taken on bigger leadership roles in work. I’d recommend the course to anyone who wants to grow from the inside out.
I’m 22 years old from Canada. What I’ve learned in my first month in the Legendary Coaching Group, and from David’s content in general, is my understanding that love is not transactional. I also realized that everything that I had accomplished in my life thus far was driven by a need for significance; I was using self-hate as fuel and working as hard as I could to achieve, because deep down I did not feel “good enough to get love”. I thought that I could fix that “problem” by accomplishing more, by creating more value within myself so that other people would give me more love.
The book analysis he did of “Flowers for Algernon” (which I read for English class in high school but did not realize the lessons that David pointed out) as well as “Learning to Love Yourself” were very helpful to me in coming to these realizations.
My limiting belief that I used in the Drive bonus course (I’m having a good laugh to myself remembering the silly voice I used during the exercise) was “People give love to you because you provide value to them, and I don’t currently have enough value to get love”.
One other realization that I’ve come to is that I’ve been avoiding being in my warrior/knight energy lately, because intense self-hatred was always such a big part of how I was able to access that energy in the past. I was tired of the self hate and I didn’t know how to access my productivity without it, so I avoided productivity. Realizing this, doing the Drive bonus course, and reading “Learning to Love Yourself” has allowed me to step back into my warrior energy, while also loving myself. I didn’t think that this was possible, but I think I’m getting the hang of it. For the past three days in a row, I’ve gone for a morning jog (I haven’t been exercising at all for the past few months or so) followed by a cold shower or ice bath. Instead of my internal dialogue being something like “come on you pathetic fuck, keep running, you fat piece of shit, you better keep pushing you lazy motherfucker! People won’t value you if you keep being a lazy fat-ass!” my internal dialogue was more like “I love you. Keep pushing! You’re doing great. I love you for how much you’re pushing yourself right now, I think you can push just a little bit more!”. I felt a lightness, a sense of space, a warm sort of fuzzy feeling throughout my body from this self love I was giving myself. From that place, it felt much easier to push myself more.
Thank you David for the work that you do. Life is becoming better already after this first month of Legendary, and after about two months of watching your YouTube content and free Masterclasses. I am so grateful!
Hi David, I have been watching and learning a lot about life from your sessions. I’ve taken time to implement what it takes to make a difference in my life… It’s been a blessing for me and my family to have come across you and your team. Your down to earth way of explaining what men go through and understanding the finer points of change that needs to be made in my life has been huge. My potential to lift myself out of the darkness and I have a new courage and determination to live life to the fullest again. I’m so grateful, so so grateful to have you in my life. Keep up the good work and I can honestly say from the bottom of my heart this single Dad is a changed man. Thanks heaps. God bless.
Rock Solid Relationships and the Legendary Coaching Group have been amazing so far, intellectually, emotionally and practically.
G’day David, I want to tell you how much Rock Solid Relationships has changed my life, already. Your Rock Solid Relationship course has been to the core, awesome. In particular, I want to share this – one of the initial therapeutic meditations brought up some emotion, some real “Jase it’s time to wake the fuck up” moments. I cried, I cried deeply… sobbing and owning it all. Afterwards, I had yelled and screamed YES, it was like a new beginning… but wait there is more…. the very next module, the guided meditation brought up some more emotion and I saw it as a sign from the god within my soul and the universe (and David Tian:)) to wake up. Step up and be the man I was meant to be. It was truly life changing. I work at Sea and this Covoid-19 thing has meant us Seafarers are working longer swings and away from our families… your RSR course has supported me and healed many wounds of insecurities so far. I can say that our marriage has never felt more alive, both on the phone and when I’m home for my 6 weeks at a time. The fun is back, I’m laughing more, I am the fucking prize and no longer do I feel the “need” to pursue her. And in turn… when I came back to the ship, my wife sent me a message saying how much she will miss me and how much of an amazing man, husband, and father I am becoming… anyway… my journey continues, I’ve still not finished the course, I’ve a few more modules. Once again, honor to you for the tireless work you do to support the boys to becoming men in this world. We sure need it. Aho! and much love brother.
I am currently enrolled in the Total Transformation Collection which compromises of four courses – Drive, Heart, Purpose and True Self. This course is helping me to change the way I interact with females and friends and how I fit in with my present social setting.
Lifestyle Mastery has made me more conscious of my old programming and shines a light towards new exciting possibilities. Got inspired to start therapy, yoga and meditation and haven’t looked back since. Completing the introspective work (while challenging at times) was an ultimately liberating process that has allowed me to reassess my priorities and reconnect with my true self. I now have a better understanding of my blockages / limiting beliefs and generally feel a greater sense of inner peace and clarity. This course is such a huge paradigm shift and I’m excited to visit it again down the road. Thank you David!
Thank you so f*cking much for your work. I cannot express how much I value what you do. I’m in tears typing out this email, just because I feel so fortunate to be able to learn the things that you teach. I feel an enormous weight lifted off me, because I believe your work will eventually allow me to overcome the truly toxic feelings I have developed towards being intimate with women.
The Legendary Coaching Group is David Tian’s awesome guide to anybody that is seeking personal growth in areas like motivation, purpose, masculinity, dating, and relationships. The core program is based around 5 progressive phases of mastering life. David does a great job at describing each stage and provides you with the necessary action steps and psychotherapeutic process to help you achieve the milestones of each stage. The program also includes guided meditations, bonus courses, and David’s streaming podcast style sessions for Q&A and provides awesome book reviews to dive even deeper into the coursework. The entire program is great and effective particularly if you do the work. I would recommend it to anybody that is just starting their adult lives in their 20s, all the way to 40+ year old divorcees who are looking to get back to dating and getting into their next relationship.
I came from a PUA type background but I found they didn’t know how to approach emotions or the deeper-level elements of psychology that you need to understand for things to be easy and straightforward. A lot of these old concepts like “bitch shields” are simply surface level knowledge until you understand the deeper-level psychology, most importantly your own psychology. But David doesn’t do it in an intellectual way like you might expect, he does it instead at an experiential level. This course is what I had in mind many years ago when I first ran into PUA and dating, but I didn’t find it until now several years later. I only found surface-level courses, or the ones that did try to address deeper psychology but didn’t know what they were talking about, which makes sense considering the questionable emotional health of the progenitors of those courses. Don’t bother with other courses until you have done this one first. The magic of this course is it gives the context you need to put other courses in their place, unless of course you decide to choose another Aura course, in which case you’ll get the same benefit. This is it, chief.
David Tian, your experiences in life with emotional pain and your ability in negotiating your obstacles to learn and grow through pain and pleasure and still be able to translate that into your current world today to help others has been a blessing to me. You have no idea how much self discovery I have been able to harness on a daily basis from my old toxic relationship into my new life of love and self discovery all because of your courses, which have been priceless… You are correct brother, love is the most powerful invisible force in this universe and just want to thank the universe for having me find your wisdom and being of knowledge to share with the world. My experience of love has been amazing and filled with adventure, growth, everlasting learning and true happiness… although I know this is just the tip of the ice burg I look forward to learning s’more until the end of time! Thank you!!
When I started doing and still do the embodied cognition meditative exercises, therapeutic processes, and meditations from your online courses. I started feeling subtle but steady shifts in my mind towards calmness and clarity of mind. Also the ability to control my body and its inner state. All of which I consider very helpful and important in my relationship and my life!
I understand many people don’t understand why a female would be so invested in a relationships program designed for men as I have. I have been thirsty and committed to learning and growing since I first learned about David Tian’s materials about two years ago.
Not only did the materials help me get through a difficult time, they helped fulfill my desire to be a strong role model for my son and help him as he matures. Now, the fruits of my learning have spread among the people I love dearly… even to my father and beyond…
Please know, you are not just investing in yourself when you work through these materials, but you are unknowingly positively infecting everyone you come in contact with.
Thank you David Tian! My response to my recent challenges is a true testament to the strength and validity of my personal growth and improvement from taking David’s Freedom U Online program and his other courses. Not only do I have understanding of myself, my psychology, and relationships, I am now a person who takes actions toward desired outcomes and welcomes difficult times. David has taught me a new perspective, the amazing value of struggle. I reflect and witness a new strength that comes from within. I am no longer a victim of my circumstances wishing things would change. Sometimes I am in awe of what I can do compared to previously. I find myself celebrating and feeling excited. Not to say that I am perfect, sometimes I catch my unconscious brain trying to cope with my stress in previous non-productive ways. Sometimes I give in and cope non-productively. Afterwards I forgive myself, tell myself I will do better next time, and remind myself we are what we do, as motivation. Having more positive actions define us more than one negative slip up. Having a meditation and exercise schedule has also definitely built strength and calm within. David, you are greatly appreciated.