A lot of young men looking for love fall into a dangerous trap:   They think their value—whether social, economic, entertainment, sexual, or otherwise—is what attracts women to them. But if you build a relationship based on value, you will never find true,...

Neediness sabotages your attractiveness. Many people already know this, but they don’t understand what causes neediness or how to reduce it in a healthy way.   Instead, they take an unhealthy approach and pretend they don’t have any needs. But this creates even more...

Tuning into your “dark side” seems scary. It forces you to smash the persona you’ve worn for your whole life. And it feels like exposing yourself for the world to see.   But nothing gives you more happiness, success, and love than integrating your dark side.   In...

In childhood, many of us were forced to repress our energies because someone shamed us for it.   The two most common examples include shame over sexual desires and anger. But these are two important energies that unlock creativity, vulnerability, passion, and love....

Everyone has a shadow side. These are emotions and personality traits buried deep in your unconscious as a coping mechanism for your pain.   While these “shadow parts” help you avoid traumatic experiences and memories, they also may sabotage your relationships,...

Many people hate the idea of therapy. They think it’s a way to rattle off about your day without healing your traumas. Or worse yet, they think therapists will heighten their mental anguish.   Most therapists are honest, helpful people. But there are many mistakes you...

If you’re an entrepreneur, you might feel like it’s impossible to find love.   Why does it feel like this?   Because there’s a grain of truth in it. Entrepreneurs care about the value they bring to the world and the legacy they leave behind.   Many of them...

I’ve worked with many high-level entrepreneurial clients and most of them have one thing in common:   Love eludes them.   Deep down, these entrepreneurs create a wildly successful business because they think that’s their ticket to unconditional love. Only to...

Most guys overcomplicate texting. They devour YouTube videos, buy texting scripts they can copy and paste to women, and even hire an agency to run their Tinder profile.   But this backfires every single time and causes you to miss out on a long-term relationship....

Following dating app advice from online dating gurus only works if you want to attract superficial hookups. And if you’re even semi-successful in your career, you’ll drown in gold diggers looking for a free meal.   Not only does this suffocate your wallet, but it can...