Oct 10, 2025 | Essays
For almost twenty years, critics have accused me of deception because of my past work coaching men in dating and relationships. The charge was simple: that I had to trick women, that I had to pretend to be someone I wasn’t, that I had to manipulate my way into...
Oct 5, 2025 | Essays
When most people think of morality, they imagine light against dark. Good against evil. A noble self against a shadow that must be denied. But here’s the truth: the parts of yourself you’re most ashamed of—the envy, the lust, the anger, the pettiness—are not your...
Sep 20, 2025 | Essays
When most people hear the word “morality,” their minds jump straight to sex. Not generosity. Not justice. Not compassion. Sex. That knee-jerk association says a lot about our history. Even in secular, educated circles, morality still carries the weight of religious...
Sep 8, 2025 | Essays
When most people hear the word “compassion,” they imagine softness. A pitying glance. A hand on the shoulder. A weakness that slows you down in the fast, competitive world of achievement. But compassion isn’t weakness. It’s not pity. And it’s not optional. Compassion...
Sep 4, 2025 | Essays
Most people assume courage means fearlessness. Charging into battle without hesitation. Speaking up without breaking a sweat. Quitting your job with no second thoughts. But that’s a cartoon version of courage. Real courage is acting even when fear is screaming at you...
Aug 29, 2025 | Essays
Most people think morality is for philosophers, priests, or people who want to look virtuous on social media. But what if moral character isn’t just for show?What if it’s the hidden foundation of a happy, successful, and deeply fulfilling life? Not in a preachy...
