Is The “Upper Limit Problem” An Invisible Force Secretly Controlling Your Life? | (#019) Beyond Success: Psychology & Philosophy for Achievers, with David Tian, Ph.D.

Is The “Upper Limit Problem” An Invisible Force Secretly Controlling Your Life? | (#019) Beyond Success: Psychology & Philosophy for Achievers, with David Tian, Ph.D.

Have you ever reached a high point in life (a major win, a big breakthrough, or a massive milestone)… only to feel like the rug’s been pulled from underneath you?
Well, I have good news and bad news:
If you find yourself second guessing yourself, procrastinating, picking fights with loved ones, or just a sinking, uneasy feeling that shows up whenever an opportunity knocks on your door, you might be going through the “Upper Limit Problem.”
The “Upper Limit Problem” happens when emotional energies from your childhood (and sometimes, from your parents’, grandparents’, and even ancestors’ childhoods) creates a heavy cloud over your emotional mind. It’s vague, yet oppressive. And it can sabotage relationships, suffocate success, and stifle fulfillment and freedom.

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How To Set Boundaries Without Feeling Guilty | (#018) Beyond Success: Psychology & Philosophy for Achievers, with David Tian, Ph.D.

How To Set Boundaries Without Feeling Guilty | (#018) Beyond Success: Psychology & Philosophy for Achievers, with David Tian, Ph.D.

Most people never stop to question today’s topic. But it silently poisons relationships, teams, and even your own peace of mind.
Worst part?
It masquerades as an innocent and harmless way to blow off steam. But it actually erodes trust, creates drama, and keeps pressing problems unresolved.
Of course, we’re talking about gossip today. Not only is it harmful to anyone you gossip to and about, but it’s insidious to you too.

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The Gossip Trap: How It Silently Destroys Trust and Connection | (#017) Beyond Success: Psychology & Philosophy for Achievers, with David Tian, Ph.D.

The Gossip Trap: How It Silently Destroys Trust and Connection | (#017) Beyond Success: Psychology & Philosophy for Achievers, with David Tian, Ph.D.

Most people never stop to question today’s topic. But it silently poisons relationships, teams, and even your own peace of mind.
Worst part?
It masquerades as an innocent and harmless way to blow off steam. But it actually erodes trust, creates drama, and keeps pressing problems unresolved.
Of course, we’re talking about gossip today. Not only is it harmful to anyone you gossip to and about, but it’s insidious to you too.

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Time Does Not Heal Emotional Wounds: Do This Instead | (#016) Beyond Success: Psychology & Philosophy for Achievers, with David Tian, Ph.D.

Time Does Not Heal Emotional Wounds: Do This Instead | (#016) Beyond Success: Psychology & Philosophy for Achievers, with David Tian, Ph.D.

Going through a breakup or recovering from a divorce is one of the most emotionally complex experiences you’ll ever face.
It’s always messy and layered. And if you don’t approach it with the right mindset, you’ll fall back into the old patterns and habits that destroyed your previous relationships.
That’s the bad news.
The good news?

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Why Smart, Successful People Struggle to Make Life’s Biggest Decisions | (#015) Beyond Success: Psychology & Philosophy for Achievers, with David Tian, Ph.D.

Why Smart, Successful People Struggle to Make Life’s Biggest Decisions | (#015) Beyond Success: Psychology & Philosophy for Achievers, with David Tian, Ph.D.

Going through a breakup or recovering from a divorce is one of the most emotionally complex experiences you’ll ever face.
It’s always messy and layered. And if you don’t approach it with the right mindset, you’ll fall back into the old patterns and habits that destroyed your previous relationships.
That’s the bad news.
The good news?

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How to Recover from a Break Up or Divorce | (#014) Beyond Success: Psychology & Philosophy for Achievers, with David Tian, Ph.D.

How to Recover from a Break Up or Divorce | (#014) Beyond Success: Psychology & Philosophy for Achievers, with David Tian, Ph.D.

Going through a breakup or recovering from a divorce is one of the most emotionally complex experiences you’ll ever face.
It’s always messy and layered. And if you don’t approach it with the right mindset, you’ll fall back into the old patterns and habits that destroyed your previous relationships.
That’s the bad news.
The good news?

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Dating After Divorce or a Break Up: 3 Steps to Re-enter the Dating World | (#013) Beyond Success: Psychology & Philosophy for Achievers, with David Tian, Ph.D.

Dating After Divorce or a Break Up: 3 Steps to Re-enter the Dating World | (#013) Beyond Success: Psychology & Philosophy for Achievers, with David Tian, Ph.D.

Most achievers who want more from life—whether in their relationships, career, or fulfillment—turn to best-selling self-help books. But most of the “wisdom” in these bestsellers doesn’t stand the test of time—at least not when compared to ancient texts that have helped people for thousands of years.
One such ancient book that offers a treasure trove of wisdom is called the Zhuangzi, an early Daoist text. And while it’s more than 2,000 years old… the wisdom contained inside this text is timeless. In fact, it’s even more useful in modern life than it was in ancient times.

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Break Free from Burnout: Mastering Self-Awareness, Anti-Fragility, & Purpose | (#012) Beyond Success: Psychology & Philosophy for Achievers, with David Tian, Ph.D.

Break Free from Burnout: Mastering Self-Awareness, Anti-Fragility, & Purpose | (#012) Beyond Success: Psychology & Philosophy for Achievers, with David Tian, Ph.D.

Most achievers who want more from life—whether in their relationships, career, or fulfillment—turn to best-selling self-help books. But most of the “wisdom” in these bestsellers doesn’t stand the test of time—at least not when compared to ancient texts that have helped people for thousands of years.
One such ancient book that offers a treasure trove of wisdom is called the Zhuangzi, an early Daoist text. And while it’s more than 2,000 years old… the wisdom contained inside this text is timeless. In fact, it’s even more useful in modern life than it was in ancient times.

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The Hidden Trap of Success and How to Escape It | (#011) Beyond Success: Psychology & Philosophy for Achievers, with David Tian, Ph.D.

The Hidden Trap of Success and How to Escape It | (#011) Beyond Success: Psychology & Philosophy for Achievers, with David Tian, Ph.D.

Most achievers who want more from life—whether in their relationships, career, or fulfillment—turn to best-selling self-help books. But most of the “wisdom” in these bestsellers doesn’t stand the test of time—at least not when compared to ancient texts that have helped people for thousands of years.
One such ancient book that offers a treasure trove of wisdom is called the Zhuangzi, an early Daoist text. And while it’s more than 2,000 years old… the wisdom contained inside this text is timeless. In fact, it’s even more useful in modern life than it was in ancient times.

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Why High Achievers Feel Unfulfilled (Even When They’re Winning) | (#010) Beyond Success: Psychology & Philosophy for Achievers, with David Tian, Ph.D.

Why High Achievers Feel Unfulfilled (Even When They’re Winning) | (#010) Beyond Success: Psychology & Philosophy for Achievers, with David Tian, Ph.D.

Most achievers who want more from life—whether in their relationships, career, or fulfillment—turn to best-selling self-help books. But most of the “wisdom” in these bestsellers doesn’t stand the test of time—at least not when compared to ancient texts that have helped people for thousands of years.
One such ancient book that offers a treasure trove of wisdom is called the Zhuangzi, an early Daoist text. And while it’s more than 2,000 years old… the wisdom contained inside this text is timeless. In fact, it’s even more useful in modern life than it was in ancient times.

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