Why Your Self-Worth Isn’t Tied to Achievements & Chasing Success Won’t Fulfill You | (#149) The Masculine Psychology Podcast with David Tian
When was the last time you felt true joy and fulfillment in your life?
For many achievers, this is something that they never experience. Each achievement and accomplishment is followed by another pursuit, always keeping happiness just out of your reach.
The worst part?
This relentless pursuit of success makes finding lasting happiness and fulfillment impossible.
But it’s possible to break free from this toxic cycle. In fact, there are 5 simple ways to help you break free from this cycle that I reveal in this episode.
Why Your Achievements Make You Miserable: The Harsh Truth | (#148) The Masculine Psychology Podcast with David Tian
Neediness plagues every relationship, and achievers tend to be more needy than other people.
Why?
Well, the achiever’s desire to achieve often stems from neediness itself. Achievers think they have to earn every bit of love and approval in their lives. And then the success you achieve from this mindset tricks you into believing that this is a good trait.
However, look closely into a successful achiever’s life, and you’ll see that no matter how much they achieved, there’s a deep void of loneliness in their lives. Look closely into their relationships, and they’re riddled with neediness.
But you know what?
The 6 Secrets to Attract & Keep a Woman in a Relationship | (#147) The Masculine Psychology Podcast with David Tian
Here’s a harsh truth for many men to understand, especially the pleasers and fixers:
It’s not your job as a man to continuously attract your woman or to make her happy. Instead, it’s about understanding the elements that naturally cultivate attraction and happiness within a relationship.
But this approach to dating and attraction is a lot harder because it requires improving yourself at the deepest levels instead of putting on a façade.
But you know what?
Conquer Fear of Failure: Proven Steps from Modern & Ancient Wisdom | (#146) The Masculine Psychology Podcast with David Tian
One of the most common and deadly fears people have is the fear of failure…
Shattering the Silence: Sexual Shame & the Hidden Struggle of Modern Men | (#145) The Masculine Psychology Podcast with David Tian
There’s a certain problem that touches the core of men’s struggles…
Cultivating Self-Worth: Why You Don’t Need Others to Validate You | (#144) The Masculine Psychology Podcast with David Tian
One of the best ways to become more attractive to women…
How to Overcome Complex PTSD & Unlock Your Inner Strength | (#143) The Masculine Psychology Podcast with David Tian
There’s a psychological condition that’s been flying under the radar for too long. …
How to Transform Neediness into Unconditional Love | (#142) The Masculine Psychology Podcast with David Tian
There’s often a fine line between love and neediness, especially for men…..
How Sadness Unlocks Growth (and Self-Pity Sabotages Your Life) | (#141) The Masculine Psychology Podcast with David Tian
Many men don’t understand the difference between sadness and self-pity….
How To Foster a Balanced, Growth Oriented Relationship: Investment | (#140) The Masculine Psychology Podcast with David Tian
A relationship is an investment from both parties. When these investments tip to one side or another…