Why Radical Transparency Is the Most Attractive (and Ethical) Approach in Dating and in Leadership
For almost twenty years, critics have accused me of deception because of my past work coaching men in dating and relationships. The charge was simple: that I had to trick women, that I had to pretend to be someone I wasn’t, that I had to manipulate my way into...
Your Dark Side Isn’t the Problem—It’s the Answer
When most people think of morality, they imagine light against dark. Good against evil. A noble self against a shadow that must be denied. But here’s the truth: the parts of yourself you’re most ashamed of—the envy, the lust, the anger, the pettiness—are not your...
Why Sexual Morality Still Shapes Your Life—Even if You Don’t Believe in It
When most people hear the word “morality,” their minds jump straight to sex. Not generosity. Not justice. Not compassion. Sex. That knee-jerk association says a lot about our history. Even in secular, educated circles, morality still carries the weight of religious...
Why Compassion is the Strength You Can’t Afford to Ignore
When most people hear the word “compassion,” they imagine softness. A pitying glance. A hand on the shoulder. A weakness that slows you down in the fast, competitive world of achievement. But compassion isn’t weakness. It’s not pity. And it’s not optional. Compassion...